quarta-feira, 22 de junho de 2016

STOP THE TORTURE NOW: China Dog Meat Festival

Wednesday, 22nd of June 2016


Today I feel the need to write about an important subject, one that hits close to my heart: the China Dog Meat Festival.

As I am writing this article, I can not but help the tears running through my cheeks or the redness of my eyes. Being a person that tries the impossible not to cry in public, the nature of this subject is one of the few that make me do so. I do not need to be watching a video or listening to someone talking about this topic, thinking that this particular practice happens every year is enough to bring me to tears and make my heart sink.

This festival happens every year in Yulin, China, being also known as Yulin Dog Meat Festival, where 10,000 to 15,000 dogs are estimated to be consumed. It is held during the Summer because, according to the Chinese traditional culture, dog meat helps the human body cop with the heat.

I am not here to judge the practice of eating dog meat, despite the fact that I do not agree with it and would never try it myself, but to raise awareness to the violence and torture methods used to maintain this act.

It is believed that using methods of torture and abuse helps the animal meat taste better and raises the health benefits of its consumption. Live burnings, skinning dogs alive, stabbing, beatings, hangings, boiling them alive and cutting their paws while they still breathe are a few of this brutal procedures selected to prepare the meat.

This is not a cultural difference problem, it is about being human and having a heart, understanding that these creatures don't have a voice and can't fight back. It is not natural, it is abuse.

I have grown in a family of dog lovers, so I soon became one as well. 

When I was born, I was lucky enough to already have a "big brother", sure he had four paws, he was very hairy and instead of talking, he barked, but he was family. 

My parents had acquired a Epganeul Breton, also known as a Brittany Spaniel, just a year before my birth and called him Fisco, since my father worked in the financial area at the time.


He soon became my guardian, my partner, my best friend. I loved him with all my heart and I know he loved me the same way back, despite of my efforts to annoy him by pulling his ears, putting my fingers in his mouth or covering him with red lipstick. He had the calmest nature, definetely being a peaceful soul and a fervorous loyalty to his family.

The day he needed to be put down was and it still is one of the most painful memories I have. He was sick for quite a while and during his last months he had lost the ability to move well and spent most of his time laying down. I knew we had to do it, he was in pain, but I still tried to avoid thinking about it. He had his own sofa, where he used to lay down in the living room, and I remember that, when there was nobody home, I used to sing to him, hoping that would help him fall asleep or maybe even take away the pain.


He died at 16 years old, while I was 15 and I will forever regret not holding him a little bit more before seeing him go.

The next year, our house had never been so silent, there was something missing, no one was the same. We still had a few items, like shampoo, the colar and some toys that would reminds us of him but it was too painful, at some point the sofa disappeared, there was this huge gap in our hearts.

Only after that horrible year we had good news, we were getting a new puppy. This time the lucky winner was a Jack Russell Terrier, who was soon named Xico.


It was strange, the experience was completely different from the first, I did not have an older brother anymore, now we had a baby in the mix, one that could spend the day sleeping for hours or running around stealing toys and socks.

His personality is different, he begs for attention and can't sleep without his family, he is more needy, just like a baby would be. He is also spoiled, no place is off limits, the sofa, the bed, the table, he is the king and everybody is there to serve his needs and cuddle him until he falls asleep in our arms.


Being extra small also makes him a target for dressing up, which I always found ridiculous, but now I see myself doing it even more than the rest of my family (Halloween equals a pumpkin outfit, while during Christmas he is our Santa).

I love him and having been separated from him twice, once when I moved to Germany and now while I remain in London, I can honestly say it is incredibly difficult. When I skype with my parents is mandatory for me to see him and call him, not only to remind him of my voice but to make sure that he remembers I am coming back to him.

This is why is so difficult for me to accept this torture and abusive practices, because I know how dogs are, I have lived with them all my life and each one has its own personality, its own likings, fears and predilects. They are innocent souls who just want to be loved, they do not deserve to be skinned and boiled alive, they at least deserve a more humane way to die.

My heart goes to Marc Ching, an American activist, who keeps putting his life in danger by travelling to countries where these methods are allowed to rescue dogs from this fate. The Animal Hope & Wellness Foundation, his project, is a wonderful organization that helps rehome dogs and they deserve our support.

REMEMBER: This is about being HUMAN, so please help ending this cycle of cruelty.


From a girl standing for those who can't speak,

Mariana Fidalgo

segunda-feira, 13 de junho de 2016

Neal's Yard

Monday, 13th of May 2016


A few days ago, despite of the rain that seems to still be waiving around London, I decided to that the perfect way to spend a day like that would be to visit several museums, such as the Grant Museum of Zoology and the Petrie Museum of Egyptian Archaeology.

However, after two hours and without any rush to go back home, I started to explore the streets next to this places and found one of the most colourful corners of the city, Neal's Yard.


Located in Convent Garden, Neal's Yard is a small alley in that area named after Thomas Neale, a 17th century developer. 

It is a perfect place to take a photo and admire the many different colours that paint the seeing, but more than that it is every hipster's dream.

Containing several health food cafes and restaurants, being known not only for their products but also for their unusual decoration, is where people trying to run away from the mainstream culture go to hang out.

One of the most famous stores is Neal's Yard Remedies, a British retailer of organic natural health and beauty products. So, many people after a cup of tea or a glass of white wine in many of the cafés present in this area, go there to supply their cabbinets with this organic products.

I just went there to admire the architecture, but ended up noticing the growing fashion of organic and natural products in London.

From a girl admiring hipster's shopping,

Mariana Fidalgo

domingo, 12 de junho de 2016

Grant Museum of Zoology

Sunday, 12th of May 2016


My first time in London was when I was sixteen years old and, as any newcomer to this city, my family and I visited all the major monuments and clichés associated with London, as one should.

Now, being not only visiting the city but actually staying here for a long period of time, I made it my mission to uncover another side to this huge metropolitan area, to discover its oddities and quirky side, things most tourists have no idea about.

Through several hours of research, I was able to come across the Grant Museum of Zoology.


This small, but quite wonderful and strange place is part of University College London, here in England and is now the only remaining university zoological museum in the city, housing around 68,000 specimens that cover the whole Animal Kingdom.


When you enter, you will be able to see that this room is full of preserved specimens, many of which are now considered endangered or extinct, such as the Tasmanian Tiger, the Quagga or the Dodo. It is also packed with skeletons and mounted animals.

It is open from Monday to Saturday, including bank holidays and it turns out is an amazing place for people who are interested in learning.

I loved my experience there, not only because I do love odd things, but also because I was able to get a lot of information from the exhibition.

From a girl getting new knowledge,

Mariana Fidalgo

sábado, 11 de junho de 2016

Jimmy Carr: the comedy legend

Saturday, 11th of June 216


It finally happened, I saw Jimmy Carr, my all time favourite comedian, perform live on Wednesday night at Richmond Theatre.


It has been one of my biggest dreams to actually see this wonderfully funny man do what he does best, telling jokes to an audience. So, when I was able to get the last ticket available for the show, I didn't even think twice and just booked it. A few weeks later, the ticket came in the post and it started to seem more like a reality and not just a fantasy. 

I researched the theatre, since it is located quite far away from central London, to make sure I had my journey all planned out and that my chances of getting lost would decrease. To my amazement, when I got to the Richmond theatre's website, I found a PDF flyer with all the information necessary. It is more than just a panflet that states the location or the time a person should arrive to see the show, it is a helping mechanism for anxious people. This had directions to the theatre, pictures of the entrance and corridors, it showed what someone needs to do to find their seat, where the bathrooms are located or even what happens before and after the show ends. I had never seen such thing, but I found it fantastic how they took the time to actually provide this and it did help me out because when I got there, I already knew everything I needed, making it a stress free situation.

After taking three buses on a rainy day, I finally got to Richmond. Richmond is a suburban town in west London, so it is quite far away, taking me more than an hour to get there.

It is a very quiet place, mostly surrounded by couples, gardens and very few traffic so giving a feeling of being completely safe.

I arrived nearly around 18h30, I decided to go to Costa café to grab something to drink and eat, which I did in a small park in front of the theatre while waiting for the doors to open.


At 19h30, everyone started to get in and find their places and I couldn't believe how close I was to the stage! Sitting in the third row, I not only had direct vision to my comedy idol, I felt really close to him. Of course, I had my little fangirl moment, no I didn't scream but my heart was beating loud.

From beginning to end, I and the other people sat down on a sold out place couldn't stop laughing, and since this was the greatest hits tour, all his best jokes collected over the years were presented, making it a must see show for his fans.

Jimmy is not your ordinary comedian, he takes comedy to a all new level and it is not for everyone. He is known for his dark humour and edgy one-liners, not forgetting his signature laugh that makes it harder to stop smiling and his love for hecklers in the middle of his show.

Here is an example:


From a girl fangirling hard,

Mariana Fidalgo

quinta-feira, 9 de junho de 2016

An ode to tesco men

Thursday, 9th of June 2016


I have been using Tesco delivery services for about 2 months now and I couldn't be happier with their performance.


Their punctuality is impecable, last time I order my grocceries to be delivered between 9am and 10am, they were at my house as early as 9h05.

Surely their services come with a price, which depends on the day and hour you choose to have your shopping bags delivered, but I can't stress enough how much it really helps.

Since it is impossible for me to do my shopping in an actual supermarket, since I would need to hire a person to help me out with the bags or to actually spend my entire week going back and forward to the nearest one, ordering what I need online has been essencial.

The truck stops right outside my door and after they ring the bell, I just need to let them in into my building and they will go up and down the stairs, since I live on the second floor, to bring some plastic boxes, which are carrying whatever products I bought.

This men are gentlemen, to be completely honest, they are the nicest people I have encountered in London.

They help out unpacking my bags and are always ready for a chat. 

Most of them are emigrants, they understand the struggle of being a newcomer in a big city and, like me, most of them come from countries known for their weather, sunshine and beaches.

It is refreshing to have a little chat with someone that not only understands your experience, but that genuinley hears what you are saying whithout trying to flirt with you, it is just a relief.

So, a big thanks to all men who work hard at tesco, they are certaintly worthy of the biggest respect.

From a girl discovering the good in people,

Mariana Fidalgo

quarta-feira, 8 de junho de 2016

Computer problems

Wednesday, 8th of June 2016


First of all, I have to apologize to everyone who follows my blog since I haven't posted anything for twelve days and that is definetely way too long!

The truth is that I have been having huge computer problems since my batery fried and now the keyboard of my laptop stopped working, not enabling me to write down what I wish.

Basically, I now own a piece of technology with half of its abilities and making it only useful to watch videos, series or to save photos.

Luckly and since I also experienced similar problems with my laptop on my year in Germany (yes, this seems to only happen whenever I leave my country for more than a month), this time I came prepared and now I am back in business using an ipad to continue with the blog.


If you think about it, there is nothing more frustrating to an emigrant than computer or technology related issues, since it is the only thing that makes us feel connected with the world and people we left behind.

When a laptop stops working, panic strikes.

In 2014, just a week after my arrival in Bamberg, my laptop stopped working completely, there was no internet and no possibility for me to get in contact with my family and friends. I had to spend six months using my friend's wifi, which was in her apartment,through my phone, making it only possible for me to use if I was sitting next to my door in the kitchen. It is not unfair to say that it was the most uncomfortable thing in that all time.

Now, 2016, I find myself in a close situation but this time there is no friend to help me out, which doesn't make it any easier but I get by.

So don't worry, let the June writing commence!

From a girl struggling with computers,

Mariana Fidalgo

sexta-feira, 27 de maio de 2016

The Serpentine

Friday, 27th of May 2016


In Hyde Park there is a recreational lake called The Serpentine, also known as the Serpentine River.


It was created in 1730 for Queen Caroline and the bridge makes the division between Hyde Park and Kensington Gardens.

Its name was choosen due to its snakelike appearance, since it was built in a curving way.

To get in there you have to pass through a tunnel and then you will be able to enjoy the view by sitting on the grass or walking through the bridge. It is a really nice place to hang out and there are always a lot of people surrounding it during sunny days.

In June, the lake opens for swimming but before there is a lot of activities taking place, such as: hiring rowing boats, the Peter Pan Cup and the Solarshuttle, which are solar powered boats.

The lake counts with many swans and geese that are always being fed by the children and you can usually find dogs running towards the water to refresh themselves after long runs, which is forbidden, but happens anyway. Of course, this brings a problem for the birds, which are vicious animals when threaten and one time they almost attacked a dog, if he had stayed 2 more minutes, it would have been wounded.


So just be careful with your dog in that area and you will be fine!

From a girl sunbathing,

Mariana Fidalgo